Where did she go wrong ?

LOVE is like a sand which can easily slip from your hand if you hold it tight and if you hold it gently than it wont slip.She had read this somewhere but as she had never fallen in love she didnt get these words .They were meaningless words for her but after she met Ali her whole perception changed.For the first time in life she fell in love and she couldnt run from it anymore .With time her relation developed but they started fighting and had severe fights misunderstanding started developing and their feelings faded.Till today she blames herself  that  where did she go wrong that she lost Ali ........