How people's interference destroy relations

She was very depressed because she had a fight with her boyfriend last night .He switched of his phone and slept but she could not sleep for a second even .Next day he did not even bothered to talk to her as she had added fuel to the fire .Her friend asked her what happened to her and in anger she started bad mouthing about him to her friend and her friend said its better to breakup .The next day she talked to him he was acting cool but the negative image made by her friend haunted her .It was not her friend's fault but it was her own fault. There is no use in discussing your relationship issues with others as you know yourself better what went wrong and only you can fix it not anyone else .It's hard to be patient when you are angry. But Patience is a virtue which saves you from many grievances .....So the next time she fought instead of talking about it with someone she started talking with ALLAH & it really helped her and hence she found peace in the moments of pain.