Don't compare me with anyone!

You don't look like her look at her she is so pretty,so delicate that people are afraid to touch her ,so polite that she never gets angry.You should be like her why couldn't he appreciate her uniqueness.He wanted her to change her nature when she accepted him with all his flaws.We have a rat race of comparing .Comparing someone with somebody else is a direct attack on their individuality.Why don't we let people act in their own way .Why do we try to change them in our made version's .Why can't we accept that everyone is gifted in their own way.He can run fast while he is an expert cook.If we all were the same than how would the affairs of this world had been handled.Allah made us different so we can serve our own purpose and do what we are good at and add something new in each other's lives.If everyone was perfect than everyone would have survived on their own without needing anyone else. We all are diverse so we can complete each other while understanding each other's differences.Next time don't compare me with anyone else she said this and left the table.His brother was the topper of the school while he was good at basketball but his parents always compared him with his brother.Why don't you get straight As like him .Basketball is a waste of time & this game has no future in our country.Why couldn't his parents believe in him and encourage him.It's because of the culture and criticism.Let your children grow in their own way & don't hinder their growth.They may not grow up the way you want them too but they will definitely be able to do what they enjoy & be happy .